This article is for those of you that want to ask a girl out on a date, but don't know how to go about doing it. It is actually much simpler than most people are aware, and can make it much easier for her to say yes if you ask her correctly.
The first step is to get on a first name basis with her. If you ask her out cold, she will almost always say no. It doesn't matter if she is a waitress you like, or a girl in your class, or a coworker. Just make sure you know her name, and that she knows your name.
Next find out some of her interests. Anything she likes to do in her spare time is fine. The more things you know the easier it will be for her to say yes to your offer.
Next is to find an event that is similar in some way to one of her interests. Anything that could be thought of as having something to do with something that she is interested in. For example, if she likes movies, you can find an event with movie posters on display.
Now, you need to plan on doing this event by yourself first. Plan on doing so by putting in on your own calendar. That way when you ask her, and she says no, it's no big deal, since you were planning on doing it anyway.
Now the big moment you've been waiting for. The big question. Only now, it's not so much a question, but an offer to join you in something you were planning on doing anyway. She'll sense this, and there won't be any pressure. She'll be much more likely to say yes.
After trying this a few times, you'll start to enjoy wild success with asking a girl out. You'll notice that they'll say yes much more often than they'll say no, which will skyrocket your self-esteem, and make you more in demand than ever. Have fun with your new social skills.
The first step is to get on a first name basis with her. If you ask her out cold, she will almost always say no. It doesn't matter if she is a waitress you like, or a girl in your class, or a coworker. Just make sure you know her name, and that she knows your name.
Next find out some of her interests. Anything she likes to do in her spare time is fine. The more things you know the easier it will be for her to say yes to your offer.
Next is to find an event that is similar in some way to one of her interests. Anything that could be thought of as having something to do with something that she is interested in. For example, if she likes movies, you can find an event with movie posters on display.
Now, you need to plan on doing this event by yourself first. Plan on doing so by putting in on your own calendar. That way when you ask her, and she says no, it's no big deal, since you were planning on doing it anyway.
Now the big moment you've been waiting for. The big question. Only now, it's not so much a question, but an offer to join you in something you were planning on doing anyway. She'll sense this, and there won't be any pressure. She'll be much more likely to say yes.
After trying this a few times, you'll start to enjoy wild success with asking a girl out. You'll notice that they'll say yes much more often than they'll say no, which will skyrocket your self-esteem, and make you more in demand than ever. Have fun with your new social skills.
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