Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy."
Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.
With his self-esteem fried to cinders, he limped away.
Maybe you've been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I'd imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that - I'd reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven't mastered the necessary skills. Let's take a look at why this is so.
Here's the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone - and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they'll still think you're interested.
But this, my friend, is about to change...
Catching a glimpse of the average man approaching a woman is a grizzly sight to behold. Think of the woman as a skilled fisherman with something irresistible hanging from her pole and the guy as a dumb fish who's minutes away from being turned into her dinner.
Even if he puts up a fight, it's game over - she already hooked him (although, if she's physically attracted to him, there's a glimmer of hope).
I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in - they're trapped.
Let me give you an example. If I'm at a nightclub, I may stand in a crowed area - maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a woman walks by I'll stick out my elbow making it inevitable that she'll bump into it.
And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I'll utter: "Ow...you hurt me."
A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, "I'm so sorry."
I'll usually shoot back with, "You can touch me but...only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke."
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man's groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
In plain English, she's hooked them in. Anything they do to win her over, reels them even closer.
With my example above, however, I'm doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I'm making her prove herself to me. I'm the sought after Prize, not her.
Here's a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can't chase each other at the same time.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.
With his self-esteem fried to cinders, he limped away.
Maybe you've been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I'd imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that - I'd reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven't mastered the necessary skills. Let's take a look at why this is so.
Here's the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone - and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they'll still think you're interested.
But this, my friend, is about to change...
Catching a glimpse of the average man approaching a woman is a grizzly sight to behold. Think of the woman as a skilled fisherman with something irresistible hanging from her pole and the guy as a dumb fish who's minutes away from being turned into her dinner.
Even if he puts up a fight, it's game over - she already hooked him (although, if she's physically attracted to him, there's a glimmer of hope).
I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in - they're trapped.
Let me give you an example. If I'm at a nightclub, I may stand in a crowed area - maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a woman walks by I'll stick out my elbow making it inevitable that she'll bump into it.
And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I'll utter: "Ow...you hurt me."
A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, "I'm so sorry."
I'll usually shoot back with, "You can touch me but...only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke."
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man's groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
In plain English, she's hooked them in. Anything they do to win her over, reels them even closer.
With my example above, however, I'm doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I'm making her prove herself to me. I'm the sought after Prize, not her.
Here's a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can't chase each other at the same time.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
About the Author:
Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship coach, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over ten years. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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